December 15, 2014

Adoption News Roundup

Here’s a look at some of the stories that caught our eye around the web this week:

For nearly two years this adoptive mother’s son would call everyone but her “mommy” (including the mail man). She understood the awesome responsibility that is becoming a parent, someone’s mother, and talks about how she worked to earn the privilege of being called mommy. Very sweet.

Are you familiar with the Scary Mommy blog? Such a great one to keep on hand. As is this post by Jill, who addresses something we know has been on everyone’s mind at least once: how you’d really like to answer those adoption questions that just seem completely rude, ridiculous and way too personal. We particularly love #5 and #7.

Not all books about expecting a child should be geared towards mothers…dads need to be prepared, too! That’s why we love this book, The Expectant Dad’s Handbook, and all the excellent tips it provides for dads who want to be as ready as possible to take on their new little one. The first two sections deal with pregnancy and labor, and the third section is ideal for learning more about what life is like once you bring the baby home. From sex to sleep deprivation, this is a great guide for new fathers-to-be.

So touched by this article written by an adoptee sharing 6 things her adoptive parents did right. “More than 30 years ago, my parents decided to adopt after several unsuccessful attempts to have a third child. I use the loose term “adoptive” parents in that my parents adopted me, but they are just my parents – my real parents, the only ones I have ever known.”

There are a lot of things about adoption that people do not understand, and that may include friends and family who are truly trying to be supportive, but maybe could use a quick course on what’s okay to discuss and what’s considered rude in the adoption world. Have someone in mind? Send them this list of ten things adoptive parents wish their friends and knew. You’re doing many people in your life a huge favor by passing this along — the gift of awareness is a good one to give this season!